"Divorce puts you on the edge of sanity" Abigail Trafford

Ex-Husband called again today...Read more here, and here

Anyway, he went off on me again about not letting him see the kids. He asked me who gave me the right to keep the kids from him, and I told him if he'd like he's welcome to call the police and ask them,

"Hey, I have a warrant for my arrest, but my ex-wife won't let me have the kids, could you meet me over there and enforce my visitation rights?"

He said, "I WILL!"

I sincerely hope he does, he's that stupid. Since he has nothing on me, (I'm a good mother, have held a job for years and years, lived in the same place for years and years, provide accordingly for our children, with no help from him whatsoever) He starts in with what a horrible wife I was! Yes, I was a shitbag, I'll admit it. Here's a little history about what a piece of shit wife I was to him.

When my oldest son, Spawn, was about 2, Jackass was out sleeping with his cousin's girlfriend's sister, who was 17 at the time. I found out while he and my son were at his folks house and his cousin came over to our apartment supposedly looking for him, and dropped hints that Jackass was cheating on me and the skank was in the car, "but don't do anything!!"

Yeah, okay, I'll just sit down on my couch...

Not so much.

Needless to say, I tried pulling her outta the car by her hair, and when that didn't work, I climbed in. Not proud of it, I punched her about the head area quite alot, which I'm sure hurt really bad. Me? Skinned my toe climbing in the car with her.

Fast forward about 2 more years...My high school sweetheart and I had kept in touch on and off. He came to visit, and yes, I "saw" him, in the biblical sense of the word. If you've never hooked up with a high school sweetheart 6 years later, don't. Especially if you are married. But even if you are not, cherish those high school memories, don't ruin them by trying to recreate them. It doesn't work. Not proud, but the marriage was pretty much over anyway. I ended up leaving after that, and he fell heavily into a meth addiction. (No, I don't blame myself, he was already starting to do it behind my back)

After rehab and cleaning up, Jackass and I went out to dinner one night to talk, and drank too much, and BAM! I ran the car right into a guardrail on his side. Didn't kill him, but I felt so guilty I ended up getting back together with him, and 9 months later, along came Deuce, my now 6 year old.

A year after that, we split up for good. I'm getting to the point, I swear!

So today, he calls me and since he has nothing of any credence to say about my morals as a parent and wife now, (I hate cheaters now, I would never cheat on anyone ever again, I would leave if it came to that.) he brings this shit up.

"Who was a great dad while you were out running around on me?"

Um, what the...? We've been divorced for 5 fucking years, and you are still bringing this shit up? I've always been careful of his feelings, but I so badly wanted to say this time:

"I wouldn't have had to run around on you if you weren't completely worthless in the sack!"

But I didn't, that would be rude...I'll save that for another day.

So all the while I can here his new girlfriend in the background! I've never even met her, and she's screaming at me through the phone!!

Um, hello, Cunt? Yeah, you. If he's harassing me like this 5 years later, wouldn't you smarten up at this point and see that he's a dirtbag POS?? And I know you've slept with him, so what the fuck are you still hanging around for? If you are waiting for it to get bigger, news flash: It won't.

So that was the sum up of my day.

BTW, I just reread the previous post, and I sound like a total bitch. I'll be honest, I'm not sad that she quit, but I didn't set out to make her quit, I swear. And I don't think it was all me, either. I'm not that full of myself! Just to clear that up...